There are some very good reasons why positive women excel at everything they do. Have you noticed most people see the world and economy as negative and voice their comments with doom and gloom? You may not have paid attention to how you feel after you listen to them but it is undoubtedly negative; how could it be anything else? You will either agree with their "D and G" theory or you will counter with a positive argument, which puts you on the defensive. Neither helps you to feel good about life, yourself, others and the world we live in.
Wouldn't you rather feel great and do well at life, love, parenting, business, and relationships? Wouldn't it be great to feel excited when you think you can do even better next time instead of beating yourself up for failing? Positive women do exactly that.
- A positive woman adjusts her world to fit her positive expectations instead of conforming to the unfortunate and lackadaisical norm of mediocrity. She understands, by seeing the positive in every situation (yes, every situation), she is happier, healthier, safer and better at everything she does.
- A positive woman expresses her expectations instead of complaints because she knows complaining puts a negative spin on a situation, lowering everyone's energy and enthusiasm while fostering arguments and further complaints. She understands positive communication and that it allows her to communicate half as much and twice as effectively.
- A positive woman takes care of herself, eating healthy, working out, taking time to relax and nourish her spirit and body. She knows this makes her a better wife, mother, friend, daughter, coworker, manager, entrepreneur, money manager, care taker and decision maker.
Although fully aware many would rather stay locked in doom, gloom and mediocrity to commiserate with one another, she steps above the cloud to the beauty of being whole, empowered and beneficial to others, whether they understand or agree with her or not.
An article by Kelly Rudolph